Expectations: the difference between high and good

 Most people don't really understand the saying, good, bad or high expectations.


One example of an expectation being bad, is when a person always expects an outcome to just not to be good. 


What is the difference between a high and a good expectation?



Imagine that your significant other starts living with you. You're ecstatic about it. You start to believe that they'll have more quality time with you now. Their working days, hours and shift will change. They'll be helpful around the home. 


To your significant other, that isn't so. Yes, they've started living with you but that doesn't mean it'll change their work schedule. In fact, it doesn't affect it at all. Except the address for the employer to mail documents and the distance in travel time to get there.


This is what a high expectation is. Is when you assume something will turn out LIKE THAT. Basically, it's unrealistic and exaggerated.



Here's the contrast to this example. Imagine that your significant other does start living with you. You are happy about it. However, this doesn't change their work schedule drastically.


You understand this as much your significant other does. The good thing is that at least you guys will have quality time together whenever you do. It may not happen right away, but it will. 


This is the example of a good expectation. You see the reality and you accept the situation. There's consideration and it is mutual. 


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