Why some don't date and leave it to fate

Imagine if you will a couple is on a date. They're having a nice meal and talking about various things. It seems like a relationship is flourishing. However, there are times when it may not be. Especially when they start to get to know each other better.

One of them mentions something about family member. It's nothing humorous nor disturbing. The other person makes a response that's insensitive or rude. During the meal, the other individual insist they split the bill, even though the other person is in no financial position to do so. Not to mention they never even offered. 

It's even worse when they found out they haven't gotten over a previous partner. Still gazing at their social media accounts. To add insult to injury, they say they want the relationship to only last for 30-60 days. Emphasizing they don't see this progressing further. They believe feelings are pointless and everything should just be superficial. 

This is obviously what they call a rebound so called relationship. Where there is no healing from a previous relationship and nothing was learned. Everything is fake and conceited, not to mention exaggerated. Especially if you see it on social media. 

Everybody knows those relationships end. It's better To keep to oneself then endure it. This is why there are those who prefer to let fate decide. Perhaps by chance they encounter someone but if it doesn't work, moving on isn't difficult. There is always the right person who will come along.

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